My parents visited on Presidents Day weekend and the boys wore them out with hotel swimming pool and never-ending reading requests. At breakfast the day after they left, Daniel asked excitedly, "What time are Gram and PopPop coming today?!" It was quite a disappointment to explain that they'd returned home and that he was headed back to school. "I wish they could live with us," he sighed.
The day of parent-teacher conferences, John dropped the boys at his parents' house on his way to work and picked them up again on his way home. That meant I got to work my regular schedule, attend conferences for both boys, and still have enough time for an (outdoor) run and a bit of Downton Abbey indulgence (I was late to the party on that one--watched Season 1 on Netflix and now am catching Season 2 on pbs.org and DVDs from the library.) The boys returned full of tales of their day-long adventure, which included building boats, "but we didn't float them because they were made of cardboard and they would have sunk to the bottom.)
As for that other no-school day, we took the opportunity for a short get-away to Des Moines, by way of Chariton to visit John's grandparents. Great-Grandpa was recuperating from an injury/illness and not at all enjoying the food in the nursing center. We planned to bring lunch, and John asked if he had any special requests. Not usually a man to ask for anything for himself, he took John a bit by surprise when he asked for a pecan-cluster blizzard from DQ. Done! We even managed to transport it packed in a cooler full of ice the 25 miles from the nearest DQ without too much melting. When we arrived, he thrilled the boys by suggesting that they should all eat their ice cream before lunch so it wouldn't melt any more. They'll be talking about that for a long time: "We ate our dessert BEFORE our lunch!!"
After a nice visit, it was on to Des Moines, where we had told the boys they could swim in the hotel pool. What we had not told them in advance was that the hotel had an indoor waterpark with a pirate theme. ARRGH!
I was at the check-in desk when they discovered it, but John reports a moment of stunned disbelief followed by pure glee. Edward's quote was, "This is gonna be the best place EVER!" It did not disappoint. There were three separate pools and the one with the pirate ship waterslides was only a foot deep, so they could splash and climb unaided. The larger waterslides ended in a pool that Ed could stand in, but Daniel couldn't, so one of us had to wait at the bottom to catch him each time. I was surprised they weren't more into the big slides, but the pirate ship was just too great a draw, I guess. Not much argument from the parental perspective. Later in the evening, we found a spot where we could see the entire pool from a chair and just enjoy the merriment.
In between our two pool excursions, we left the hotel to join our good friends for dinner. We don't get to see each other often enough, but when we do, we truly relish the time to chat, catch up and just enjoy each other's company. Their two girls are just as Lego- and Star Wars-obsessed as our boys, so the kids were pretty much self entertaining. This has been a parenting revelation over the last few months--the ability to meet up with other families and actually have adult conversation while the kids are out of sight and busy creating their own adventures.
When we got back to the hotel it was nearly 8 p.m., which is past our regular bedtime. Daniel was sort of resigned to heading for bed, but Edward meekly suggested another dip in the pool, clearly expecting to be turned down. When we said yes (what the heck, it's "vacation" and we all have to go to bed at the same time so it might as well be a little later) they were both out of their clothes and into swimsuits in two minutes flat. (Shout out to my mom for teaching me to pack two swim suits to avoid the cold discomfort of putting on a wet suit for a second dip.)
After a final pool romp, we got changed and gathered up our stuff to check out. Before heading home though. we stopped at the Science Center of Iowa, which has a special exhibit on Egypt for the next few months. The boys loved climbing on the camel and building a pyramid out of blocks. Viewing the actual artifacts held a little less appeal, but they were fascinated by the mummy. They also had a chance to use a stencil to write their names in hieroglyphics.
We stayed to play in the museum's permanent exhibits for a while, but by then we were all getting a bit hungry and well past tired on the way to exhausted, so we decided to head home. I thought we had hearty enough snack food to forgo an official lunch stop, but that turned out to be a mistake. I also thought that Daniel at least would sleep most of the way home. Wrong again. So the drive home was not terribly pleasant, but at least I'd planned ahead to have a quick dinner ready to prep once we got home. After we'd eaten, everyone was in better spirits.