Last week we got to visit some friends in the hospital after their baby was born. When they called to ask if we could bring them a piece of camera/computer equipment they'd forgotten I didn't even think twice about saying we'd be right over and that we'd bring dinner to spare them the hospital fare. A few months ago I might have hesitated or even said we'd have to meet at the door. It was weird being back up on the 6th floor, but also very comforting to see what a real Mother/Baby room looks like--mom, dad, AND baby. A rolling bassinet at the foot of the bed. No worries or fear. Something we hope to experience for ourselves in January.